{As I write these words to you on Trusting God when He Breaks Your Heart, I tread very cautiously, as I understand the great responsibility of speaking rightly and truthfully to you on the character of God. With much prayer and after months of working to write this article so that it speaks nothing more and nothing less than God declares in His word, I ask God to show you glorious truths about Himself and to reveal the knowledge of God to you in a deeper and more intimate way.}…
infertility and pregnancy loss
Celebrating Mother’s Day {when mother’s day is hard}
Three very short years ago, I was a basketcase on Mother’s Day weekend. After several years of infertility, we had just lost our first child through an early miscarriage. Mother’s Day that year seemed especially cruel and agonizing to me — a childless mother.
Mother’s Day (well, all holidays, really) can be hard for those without a mother, those who want to be mothers, and even for those who struggle as a mother. But, just as any other day presents opportunity, Mother’s Day especially presents opportunity for us to offer thanks to God, offer petitions to and pour out our hearts to God, and pray for one another — even if our culture’s celebration of the day tends to remind us of what has been taken away rather than what we have been given.
After a particularly embarrassing Sunday one year where I was reduced to a sniveling mess in the middle of the pastor’s Mother’s Day sermon in 1 Samuel 1 about Hannah, I stopped going to church on Mother’s Day Sunday….